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Is He Marriage Material? Four Steps for Creating Your

Four Steps for Creating Your

Is He Marriage Material? Four Steps for Creating Your Custom Plan & Deciding If He’s Worth Your Time

It is important to know yourself, your goals, your needs and the things you want well before you find a good

the relationship that can lead to

And the best way you can determine if your present or future boyfriend is a marriage suit is to get to know yourself,

create a checklist of what is best for you, and then test it out to see if it suits you.

In this article, we will explain what you need to know about yourself and him to consider the next step!

Step One: Know There Is a “Perfect Mr. For You” and that You Can Design Him

Still waiting? You know who I mean:

 

Is He Marriage Material? Four Steps for Creating Your Custom Plan & Deciding If He’s Worth Your Time

“Mr. Right”. The perfect man who will satisfy all your dreams and make your life worthwhile?

Yes, that boy. Well, I’m sorry to break it like this but …

Baby Charming, riding on a white horse, got lost because the men hated asking for directions.

Or you found Princess Charming and married her on the way to your castle … or, you know, your house.

And by the way, even Prince Charming was flawless. I’m sure you left dirty dishes in the sink and never passed the bed.

However, the point is that PERFECT does not appear anytime soon.

The fact is … no one is perfect. There is no male or female. Perfection does not exist in humans. But do not be

discouraged if you are looking for the perfect man.

Is He Marriage Material? Four Steps for Creating Your Custom Plan & Deciding If He’s Worth Your Time

Four Steps for Creating Your
Four Steps for Creating Your

I did that for a long time, very afraid that if I did not understand her well, I would fail myself, my future children, the

planet, my Mother, and maybe even God.

I was wrong. Don’t even look at perfection, because the concept of “perfect IN YOU” exists instead. You can arrange

for a guy who may not be perfect in the world, but who is fit and who fits YOU well.

The ideal man for your dreams doesn’t hide under your bed, though. That would be very easy. I will not have that.

No, you just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. But don’t worry,

searching can be fun if you want it to, and the hardest part is done. Now you know you won’t get perfect, so the pressure is off!

Is He Marriage Material? Four Steps for Creating Your Custom Plan & Deciding If He’s Worth Your Time

By the way, do you feel everything is “bad enough” sometimes too? You wonder “why am I still married” even?

I did too. However, I learned that although I may not be completely equal to the “standard of beauty” of my community, I met the good manners of a few men … or at least I was close enough!

And that’s all you really need. So do not worry. “Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect-For-You” may be around … if you give him a chance!

You can edit it. Do not do this automatically.

I have noticed that sometimes we find ourselves dating or married to what I call “automatic”. That means we find a

man, decide that he is the best we can do, and hold on to it without really analyzing it to determine if it really suits us or our lives.

Is He Marriage Material? Four Steps for Creating Your Custom Plan & Deciding If He’s Worth Your Time

Do not be a victim of default. This is not the time to “go where you go”. YOU CAN PLAN FOR HIM. If you do your

research and formulate your strategy, you will not have to put up with defeat!

You will have a way of knowing if you are a wedding property … or not!

Now that you know there is no “Mr. Right” or perfect man, the pressure is off, and you can now have fun by looking

for what I call a “better man”. You also know that spontaneous dating is not the best way to avoid the pain of having

a dud. And you understand that you can take the bull by the horns and decide what you want your perfect boy to look like.

Is He Marriage Material? Four Steps for Creating Your Custom Plan & Deciding If He’s Worth Your Time

Four Steps for Creating Your
Four Steps for Creating Your

Now it’s time to dive into YOU, decide on your dating episodes, and decide which type of guy best suits you.

Step Two: Know: Your Goals and Dreams, Requirements and Requirements, and Terms of Use

Have you seen the first movie The Matrix (TM)? Do you remember that incident when Neo went to see Oracle?

He tries to figure out if he is “the Messiah” – the type of Messiah and the man Morpheus wants – and thinks Oracle can help him decide what to do.

A typical good mentor, Oracle makes Neo find his own way. Before taking her out to find her own answers, she

points to a sign above her door that reads nosce te Ipsum.

Know yourself.

You need to know yourself well before you commit to someone else.

Have you ever taken the time to really think about what you want in your life? I don’t mean what you THINK you

want – which is usually what others want from you – or what society wants you for – don’t start with that, but what YOU REALLY WANT, really, do you?

Why? However, understanding yourself is the most important thing you can do before you become deeply involved

with someone.

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